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Please read these Terms carefully before using U Find We. By joining our community, you agree to these terms and take full soul sovereignty over your journey here.

Last updated: May 2026

A note from our hearts

Even though we operate in the spirit of love, light, and 5D consciousness, we live in a world that requires earthly legal protections too. These Terms are here to keep this space safe, sustainable, and protected for every soul who finds their way here.

1. Overview & Acceptance of Terms

Welcome to U Find We ('the Platform', 'we', 'us', 'our'). By accessing or using this Platform, you ('the User', 'Member', 'Soul') agree to be bound by these Terms and Conditions in full. If you do not agree with any part of these Terms, you must not use the Platform.

U Find We is a free digital community platform designed to facilitate genuine spiritual connection between consenting adults. We are not a dating agency, matchmaking service, escort service, or provider of any professional therapeutic, medical, psychological, or legal services.

These Terms form a legally binding agreement between you and U Find We. We reserve the right to update these Terms at any time. Continued use of the Platform following notification of changes constitutes acceptance of the revised Terms.

2. Eligibility

You must be at least 18 years of age to create an account and use the Platform. By registering, you confirm that you are 18 or older and have the legal capacity to enter into a binding agreement.

We do not require government-issued identification or invasive age verification mechanisms. We rely on the honesty and integrity of our Members in self-declaring their age, in keeping with our commitment to privacy and minimal data collection.

You may only hold one active account at any time. Creating duplicate or false accounts is strictly prohibited and may result in permanent removal from the Platform.

Membership is open to individuals of all backgrounds, spiritual traditions, beliefs, and walks of life, provided they engage with our community in good faith and in alignment with our Community Standards.

3. Account Responsibility

You are solely responsible for maintaining the confidentiality of your login credentials and for all activity that occurs under your account. U Find We cannot be held liable for any loss or damage arising from your failure to safeguard your account details.

You agree to provide accurate, current, and truthful information when creating and maintaining your profile. Impersonation of any person, entity, or spiritual figure is strictly prohibited.

If you become aware of any unauthorised use of your account, you must notify us immediately. We reserve the right to suspend or terminate accounts that we reasonably believe have been compromised or used in breach of these Terms.

4. Personal Accountability & Soul Sovereignty

U Find We is a platform built on the principle that each individual is the author of their own spiritual journey. By joining this community, you acknowledge and agree that you enter all connections, conversations, and in-person meetings entirely of your own free will.

You take full personal accountability for how you interpret, act upon, or are affected by interactions with other Members. The Platform does not endorse, verify, or take responsibility for the spiritual beliefs, practices, claims, advice, or conduct of any Member.

Any guidance, insight, or sharing offered by Members is personal in nature and does not constitute professional therapeutic, medical, psychological, financial, or legal advice. You agree not to rely on any such sharing as a substitute for qualified professional counsel.

U Find We is not liable for any emotional, psychological, physical, financial, or spiritual outcomes arising from connections made through the Platform. Your journey is yours. We simply hold the space.

5. Acceptable Use & Code of Conduct

All Members agree to engage with the Platform and with each other in good faith, with kindness, and in alignment with our Community Standards. The following conduct is strictly prohibited and may result in immediate and permanent account termination:

  • Harassment, bullying, intimidation, threatening, or coercive behaviour of any kind
  • Sharing, soliciting, or distributing explicit, sexual, or indecent content without clear mutual consent
  • Hate speech, discrimination, or language targeting race, religion, gender, sexuality, disability, nationality, or spiritual belief
  • Spam, unsolicited promotional content, advertising, or solicitation of any commercial nature
  • Impersonating another individual, public figure, spiritual teacher, or entity
  • Sharing false, misleading, or defamatory content about other Members or third parties
  • Attempting to extract personal or financial information from other Members
  • Using automated tools, bots, scrapers, scripts, or other means to access, extract, or interact with the Platform without authorisation
  • Any activity that violates applicable local, national, or international law
  • Using the Platform to facilitate physical harm, coercion, or exploitation of any kind

We reserve the right to remove any content and suspend or terminate any account that we determine, in our sole discretion, to be in violation of these standards.

6. In-Person Meetings & Soul Circles

U Find We may facilitate the discovery and organisation of in-person gatherings, Soul Circles, and meet-ups between Members. All such meetings are entirely voluntary and organised at the sole discretion of the individuals involved.

U Find We does not vet, verify, background-check, or take responsibility for any Member attending in-person events. You are solely responsible for your own safety when meeting other Members in person.

We strongly encourage all Members to follow personal safety guidelines: meet in public places initially, inform a trusted friend of your plans, and trust your instincts at all times. If something does not feel right, please remove yourself from the situation.

U Find We assumes no liability for any harm, loss, injury, or consequence arising from in-person meetings facilitated through or inspired by the Platform.

7. Video Calling

U Find We offers an optional peer-to-peer video calling feature that allows consenting Members to connect face-to-face within the Platform. This feature is provided solely as a tool for Members to verify each other's identity and build genuine connection beyond text-based messaging.

By initiating or accepting a video call through U Find We, you acknowledge and agree to the following terms, which are material to your use of this Platform:

Video calls are a profile verification tool — nothing more

Video calling on U Find We is designed exclusively for short-form profile verification. Calls are strictly limited to 5 minutes in duration. This is an intentional safety feature — a window of time sufficient to confirm someone is who they present themselves to be, but not long enough to facilitate inappropriate or exploitative behaviour.

No vetting, no verification, no endorsement

U Find We does not vet, verify, background-check, or in any way endorse any Member who appears on a video call. The fact that a Member is present on a video call does not constitute any guarantee, warranty, or representation by U Find We as to that Member's identity, character, intentions, credibility, or safety.

Your safety is your responsibility

You are solely responsible for your own safety and wellbeing before, during, and after any video call. You must use your own judgment to determine whether the person you are speaking with is genuine, trustworthy, and safe. If at any point you feel uncomfortable, unsafe, or uncertain, you should end the call immediately and consider reporting the Member.

Mutual consent is required

A video call can only take place between two Members who have both explicitly consented to the call. Either party may end the call at any time, for any reason, without explanation. Ending a call early does not violate these Terms.

No recording or storage of call content

Video calls on U Find We are peer-to-peer real-time connections. U Find We does not record, store, monitor, or retain the audio or video content of any video call. Call metadata (such as timestamps, participant identifiers, and call duration) is stored for safety and operational purposes only, in accordance with our Privacy Policy.

No liability for video call interactions

To the maximum extent permitted by law, U Find We bears NO liability whatsoever for: (a) any interaction, conduct, or communication that takes place during a video call; (b) the content of anything said, shown, or done during a video call by any participant; (c) any emotional, psychological, physical, financial, or other harm arising from or relating to a video call; (d) the failure of a Member to disclose their true identity, intentions, or background during a video call; (e) any technical failure, interruption, or quality issue affecting a video call; and (f) any consequence of your decision to continue or end a video call.

Reporting video calls

If you experience inappropriate, harmful, or concerning behaviour during a video call, you can report the Member directly from the call screen using the in-call Report button. Reports are reviewed by our team. We may, in our sole discretion, issue warnings, suspend accounts, or permanently remove Members based on video call reports. For urgent safety concerns, email safety@ufindwe.com directly.

Acceptable conduct during video calls

All conduct during video calls is subject to the same Code of Conduct set out in Section 5 of these Terms. Harassment, indecent exposure, threatening behaviour, hate speech, discrimination, and any other prohibited conduct will result in account suspension or termination. Members are strictly prohibited from recording, screenshotting, or redistributing any part of a video call without the explicit consent of all participants.

8. User-Generated Content

You retain ownership of any content you create and share on the Platform, including profile information, photos, forum posts, and messages. By submitting content to U Find We, you grant us a non-exclusive, royalty-free, worldwide licence to display and distribute that content solely for the purpose of operating and improving the Platform.

You confirm that any content you share does not infringe the intellectual property rights, privacy rights, or any other rights of any third party.

We reserve the right to remove any content at any time and without notice if it violates these Terms, our Community Standards, or applicable law. We do not routinely monitor all content on the Platform but will act on reports promptly.

9. Privacy & Data

Your privacy is important to us. By using the Platform, you consent to the collection and use of your information in accordance with our Privacy Policy, which is incorporated into these Terms by reference.

We collect only the information necessary to operate and improve the Platform. We do not sell your personal data to third parties. We use appropriate technical and organisational measures to protect your data.

You have the right to request access to, correction of, or deletion of your personal data at any time. You may also deactivate or delete your account through your profile settings.

As a spiritual community, some profile information (such as your spiritual path, practices, and intentions) is voluntarily shared by you and may be visible to other Members. Please share only what you feel comfortable with.

10. Donations

U Find We is a free platform. We do not charge for access, membership, or any core feature. We accept voluntary donations from Members who wish to support the continued operation and development of the Platform.

All donations are entirely voluntary and non-refundable. Donations do not entitle the donor to any additional rights, features, priority access, or influence over Platform decisions.

Donation payments are processed securely through third-party payment processors. U Find We does not store your full payment card details.

Disputed donation payments or chargebacks may result in the suspension of associated features or account privileges until the matter is resolved.

12. Disclaimers & Limitation of Liability

The Platform is provided 'as is' and 'as available' without warranties of any kind, express or implied. We do not warrant that the Platform will be uninterrupted, error-free, or free from harmful components.

U Find We does not guarantee that use of the Platform will result in any specific spiritual outcome, connection, relationship, or personal development. All such journeys are entirely the responsibility of the individual.

To the maximum extent permitted by applicable law, U Find We and its operators, directors, employees, and agents shall not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive damages arising from your use of or inability to use the Platform, including but not limited to loss of data, loss of profits, emotional distress, physical harm, financial loss, or reputational damage. This includes, without limitation, any loss arising from Paid Events, event cancellations, and transactions between Members.

Our total aggregate liability to you for any claim arising out of or relating to the Platform shall not exceed the total amount you have donated to U Find We in the twelve months preceding the claim, or £100 GBP, whichever is greater. For the avoidance of doubt, U Find We's liability cap does NOT apply to funds paid to Hosts for events — those transactions are between you and the Host, and U Find We bears no liability for them.

You agree to indemnify and hold harmless U Find We, its operators, directors, employees, and agents from any claims, damages, losses, or expenses (including reasonable legal costs) arising from your content, conduct, or breach of these Terms. This indemnity extends to any claim brought by a third party arising from or relating to an event you have hosted or attended.

We shall not be liable for any failure or delay in providing the Platform where such failure arises from circumstances beyond our reasonable control, including but not limited to internet outages, third-party service failures, or events of force majeure.

13. Termination

You may close your account at any time through your profile settings. Upon closure, your personal data will be handled in accordance with our Privacy Policy.

We reserve the right to suspend, restrict, or terminate your account at any time, with or without notice, if we determine that you have breached these Terms, our Community Standards, or applicable law - or if we believe your continued presence poses a risk to the safety or wellbeing of other Members.

Upon termination, any licences granted to you under these Terms will cease immediately. Provisions that by their nature should survive termination shall continue to apply.

14. Governing Law & Disputes

These Terms shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of England and Wales. You agree to submit to the exclusive jurisdiction of the courts of England and Wales for the resolution of any disputes arising out of or in connection with these Terms or your use of the Platform.

Before initiating any formal legal proceedings, both parties agree to attempt in good faith to resolve any dispute through direct communication. We genuinely want to resolve things peacefully.

If any provision of these Terms is found to be invalid or unenforceable, that provision shall be modified to the minimum extent necessary to make it valid and enforceable, and the remaining provisions shall continue in full force and effect.

15. Contact

If you have any questions, concerns, or requests relating to these Terms, please reach out to us through the Forums or via any contact method available on the Platform. We are a small, heart-centred team and we aim to respond to all genuine enquiries with care and in a timely manner.

16. Platform Intellectual Property

The U Find We name, logo, brand identity, website design, software, code, and all associated materials are the intellectual property of U Find We and are protected by applicable copyright, trademark, and other intellectual property laws.

You are granted a limited, non-exclusive, non-transferable licence to use the Platform for its intended purpose. You may not copy, modify, distribute, reverse-engineer, or create derivative works from any part of the Platform without our prior written consent.

All goodwill generated through your use of the Platform inures to the benefit of U Find We.

17. Member-to-Member Disputes

U Find We is not a party to any interactions, conversations, financial transactions, or disputes between Members. We do not mediate, arbitrate, or adjudicate disputes between Members — whether interpersonal, financial, or otherwise.

Members are solely responsible for resolving any disagreements, conflicts, claims, or refund requests arising from their interactions with other Members, including but not limited to Paid Events, event cancellations, and payment disputes. You agree not to involve U Find We in any such disputes or to make any claim against us arising from the conduct of another Member or the non-delivery of a Paid Event.

We may, at our sole discretion, provide tools such as blocking, reporting, or account suspension to help Members manage their interactions and protect the community, but use of these tools does not create any obligation on our part to intervene, mediate, or compensate any party.

18. General Provisions

We reserve the right to modify, suspend, or discontinue the Platform (or any part of it) at any time, with or without notice. We shall not be liable to you or any third party for any such modification, suspension, or discontinuation.

No Member or User is an agent, employee, partner, or representative of U Find We. Nothing in these Terms creates an agency, partnership, joint venture, or employment relationship.

These Terms, together with our Privacy Policy and Community Standards, constitute the entire agreement between you and U Find We regarding your use of the Platform and supersede all prior agreements, understandings, or representations.

Our failure to enforce any provision of these Terms shall not be construed as a waiver of that provision or of our right to enforce it later. If any provision is held invalid, the remainder of these Terms shall continue in full force and effect.

We may send notices to you via email or by posting them on the Platform. You consent to receive all communications from us electronically.

You Are the Author of Your Journey

These terms exist to protect the sacred container we're building together. Thank you for reading them and for showing up with integrity.

Last updated May 2026 · U Find We © 2026